tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post6516081738439469849..comments2023-05-18T03:00:50.326-07:00Comments on Poetry of Flesh: I'd rather have a bottle in front of me...Poetry of Fleshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00871932715491205605noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-90422564243174737692010-05-06T22:46:54.648-07:002010-05-06T22:46:54.648-07:00Unsurprisingly, we have that particular vice in co...Unsurprisingly, we have that particular vice in common.Poetry of Fleshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00871932715491205605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-43854428199275640602010-05-06T05:42:46.254-07:002010-05-06T05:42:46.254-07:00It is a vice of mine.
I have a few.
I also have so...It is a vice of mine.<br />I have a few.<br />I also have some virtues, but brevity is not among them...Kamal S.http://kali-yuga.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-3951668537188170502010-05-03T16:13:14.334-07:002010-05-03T16:13:14.334-07:00I have checked it out. And I think I'm going ...I have checked it out. And I think I'm going to need to read our two posts side by side to get the full effect. Possibly a few times, heh. You're just as wordy as I am, sir.Poetry of Fleshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00871932715491205605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-76313537205584597052010-05-02T12:20:09.507-07:002010-05-02T12:20:09.507-07:00For the record I just posted something, check it o...For the record I just posted something, check it out if you likeKamal S.http://kali-yuga.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-70682869323032903562010-05-02T10:15:42.699-07:002010-05-02T10:15:42.699-07:00Hmmm.....
Words we use, labels we adopt, to descr...Hmmm.....<br /><br />Words we use, labels we adopt, to describe ourselves and others, reflect the way we perceive reality as we have encountered it, as well as how we have been taught or conditioned to perceive what we encounter. Not every perception is accurate, we sometimes mis-perceive.<br /><br />Every encounter with each other we hold incredible power, to influence their perception of reality in some way. It is a power easily misused, it can be used for mutual benefit, mutual joy, mutual pleasure, mutual wonder - it can be used for non mutually engaged advantage and benefit for only one party at the expense of another’s. None of this is absolute, it has degrees.<br /><br />How we describe ourselves, and each other, and how we relate to each other <br />In a strange way other people's labels and names also affect our own perceptions. We filter reality as we perceive it largely through the screen of the words we use to describe it, and the concepts these words represent, and other people's words and labels influence us.<br /><br /><br />poetry@ <em>"..It drives me nuts to think that, for so many, my desirability is not based on my brain, my character, my too-extreme Disney-like morals, but my appearance. And this is accepted. .."</em> <br /><br />Isn't this the case for most people, male and female? To some degree, degree not absolutes. I think there is a basic division in this between males and females, that males are primarily more visual and appearance moved when it comes to attraction, and females more behavioral or state moved. But all of this can be made into stereotypes that obscure the fullness of what's going on. In the case of most women I've met there are clear aspects of desirability based on a man's appearance, just as for men. And in both cases with all but the most crass there are other aspects to desirability, character or mind, but all of it boils down to how that person makes us feel. No one tends to make mating decisions on strictly logical grounds. Sex reflects us all at our most deeply irrational.<br />Our cultures can accentuate and suppress certain things - anyone who travels a bit can see how women and men in differing cultures find some things other than appearance more, or less, desirable. But sex love is physical love, so it makes sense that the physical affects our desirability.<br /><br />What is clear is this, for all of us, we have very little time to seek what we want to have in our lives. Every 24 hours brings us closer to the grave, the years stretch on, our bodies change, our minds change. If there is something we want we should intelligently seek it, when where and how we can, and not waste too much time in doing so. I think our culture cheats us of much deeper fulfillment by fostering the idea in all of us that we have a long time to get to where we want or need to be. We don't. 24 hours and a day is done. 360 days, and a year is done. 83,93 years maybe, and a life is done. When we look back at it, 40 years from now, what memories will we treasure?<br /><br />And what will we regret?<br /><br />I had a long-ass comment that I trimmed... but maybe it will make an interesting post...Kamal S.http://kali-yuga.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-28205970124803592412010-04-27T10:14:51.152-07:002010-04-27T10:14:51.152-07:00Damaged... so very damaged.Damaged... so very damaged.Snapnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-76126892993743463082010-04-26T17:17:38.311-07:002010-04-26T17:17:38.311-07:00Phoenixism,
Very true about the labels. I didn&#...Phoenixism,<br /><br />Very true about the labels. I didn't go that deep in them, so I'm glad you did.<br /><br />And most guys, if you sleep with them, think you're even more of a slut -and- you have no taste. It's funny how much self-loathing will ruin sex.<br /><br />Mag,<br /><br />I know that as soon as I stop looking and relax into myself, I'll find someone. It's just a matter of doing that, which takes time. I'm so anxious and worried all the time now, overwhelmed by life, it makes things difficult, makes each day difficult.<br /><br />I hope you keep staying strong with your guy. I need a role-model. :)<br /><br />Savage,<br /><br />Well, I still need your resume and your genetic history. And also, I think having your babies would be akin to giving birth to small refrigerator. I'm not sure my body can handle that.<br /><br />Aldonza,<br /><br />Oh, christ, you're right. All I'm seeing is alpha alpha alpha. I'm just as bad as the PUA/MRA guys. Also right, I focus on the sexual alphas. Never really thought to differentiate into alpa types.<br /><br />Did you happen to see Gone Savage's blog post on cats and their effect on people? It was amazing, though I don't know if it was accurate or just a silly ramble. Probably more the latter.<br /><br />I'm actually going to be taking a break from the PUA-sphere for a bit, clear my head. It's much needed.<br /><br />Dan,<br /><br />I think all of us just focus on reinforcing whatever negativity we're experiencing. It's very cyclical. It's hard not to be that way, I've been trying to train myself out of it- enforce new patterns of thought, but it's difficult.<br /><br />And you're very right. We both need to remind ourselves of that.<br /><br />Mag,<br /><br />Also a good point. I'm wondering what my life will get up to, with all the changes that are possible, all the different roles I have opportunities of filling. <br /><br />We'll see how it goes.Poetry of Fleshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00871932715491205605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-16844472375665519322010-04-22T21:22:13.584-07:002010-04-22T21:22:13.584-07:00Ok I am hopping in one more time, tee hee. My Dad ...Ok I am hopping in one more time, tee hee. My Dad was 38 when he died. My brother always said he would never make it past 40 because his dad died young. My brother is now 53, lol. Women are famous for raising a family and then going on to have 2 or 3 differant careers in one lifetime. Statistics about mortality are great but they don't prove anything 100 percent.Susan Urquharthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09037363900819522754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-34693814681070061302010-04-22T10:54:07.572-07:002010-04-22T10:54:07.572-07:00I think brain mush days come with the territory, e...I think brain mush days come with the territory, especially if you're of a certain temperament.<br /><br />I think what's interesting is when I'm in a morose mood, my brain will start casting about for thoughts to justify or reinforce what I'm feeling. I have to remind myself that just because a think a thing doesn't necessarily make it true.Dan_Brodribbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14026291343082142533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-59281785465195800132010-04-22T10:42:27.028-07:002010-04-22T10:42:27.028-07:00Heheh, don't worry. I keep just the right boo...Heheh, don't worry. I keep just the right boot handy to whack you upside the head with.<br /><br />Sometimes I read you and some of the other stuff in the manosphere and I think that I should just crawl off and die, because clearly there is no room for a woman to even exist if she dares live past 30.<br /><br />Well, she'd be allowed to exist, you know, to take care of the cat population. But no sane man would want her.<br /><br />I'm glad there is a lack of sane men then.<br /><br />If all they can see are cock-carousel sluts, used-up, reformed sluts, and girls too ugly to be either, you're equally guilty of only being able to see super-alphas (particularly sexual alphas) and...well...everyone else. <br /><br />I'd be the last to tell you that fertility is eternal. It's not. But this idea that you have a shelf-life beyond which you'll never find a partner? Bullshit.Sharonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12445558988316054957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-56465403617350866242010-04-22T03:02:23.140-07:002010-04-22T03:02:23.140-07:00A nod's as good a wink, eh?
So what you're...A nod's as good a wink, eh?<br />So what you're saying is I have just under two years to get myself established to where I can move out to California... hmmm I wonder if we have a plant out there (the company I work for that is).<br />Personally, not knowing what you look like in your entirety I can honestly say I do like you for your mind.<br /><br />My Pros: I'm strong<br />: sexy<br />: intelligent<br />: have a wild streak<br />: write pretty awesome poetry<br />: am tattooed with a smattering of piercings<br />: snuggler<br />: fun at parties<br />: I dance<br />: I don't drink much<br />: would make an excellent father<br /><br />My Cons: I'm "the nice guy"<br />: I sometimes forget to capitalize and use punctuation while texting<br />: probably won't be moving to California in the next two years<br /><br />Hope this gave you a chuckle at leastThe Savagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13743715158080363222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-64912129694337215232010-04-22T01:36:33.399-07:002010-04-22T01:36:33.399-07:00Ugh, I shouldn't have read this... I was alrea...Ugh, I shouldn't have read this... I was already depressed, and am now feeling worse. I recently turned thirty-five, am unmarried, and am throughly pissed off that anyone would look at me and see me as having virtually no shelf-life (I'm not talking about you, I'm talking about the pigs that resemble men, until they make themselves known). <br /><br />It does go by, much too fast. Don't waste anymore time with him. I would hate for you to be my age, and end up kicking yourself for having given him just one more chance... one more date that might fuck with your head (although I do also understand the mixed emotions). He's going to miss you, and that will be his own fault.Angelanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-34505077006989349722010-04-22T00:00:03.734-07:002010-04-22T00:00:03.734-07:00This forum of blogs, to me, creates freedom, freed...This forum of blogs, to me, creates freedom, freedom to use words to express opinions, concepts, ideas, views, feelings, stories, images etc..to others who care to read, and see. It is always the readers choice weather or not to read. Our country is founded on freedom of speech and freedom of the press. I would never "force" my beliefs on anyone, however I do have discussions about politics and religion and many differant topics. I just choose carefully who I would have those discussions with, which I see as tact. <br /><br />It is through our peers, friends, family members, and teachers, that we learn and shape our own ideas about all the topics of our world. Ok I am getting off my soap box now.<br /><br />About your dilema with GV8, some people dont want to take no for an answer. It is almost like a blind spot. I have broken up with my current guy 3 times now and he wont accept it. Oh sure he will ignore me for a few days, like it's a punnishment, and I will admit the first couple of times that is what it felt like. This time however, I dont care if he comes back at all. I am tired of the games and it didnt take long. About 4 months. But I am not young, and I dont want to waste a second of my precious time on a dead end relationship. <br /><br />I hope you find peace with your decision. It will get better. Time heals wounds. My son is 24 and is dating his very first girlfriend. Not because he couldnt find anyone, but because he wanted to wait, until he got out of the Army, got a job, and got settled in his life back at home. <br /><br />You still have plenty of time. Just enjoy yourself. When you stop looking you will find the one that is right for you. He will just be there and you will know it. Thanks for sharing, find your ground and stand tall, SweetSusan Urquharthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09037363900819522754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-28893965979499809182010-04-21T23:53:33.605-07:002010-04-21T23:53:33.605-07:00Poetry
First, I really identify with the hair thi...Poetry<br /><br />First, I really identify with the hair thing (I am lazy)<br /><br />Secondly, forget about GV8 for good. Do you really want to look back and think, I let that idiot waste my last precious years? You are moving on now, don't look back.<br /><br />Thirdly, you may possibly have more time left than you think. But if thinking otherwise is going to get you to dump GV8 for good, hell, who am I to argue this point?SDaedalushttp://www.sdaedalus.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-3267856115784096892010-04-21T23:03:58.548-07:002010-04-21T23:03:58.548-07:00Slut, cocktease, stupid labels. God how I hate la...Slut, cocktease, stupid labels. God how I hate labels. I hate that they are lazy. Mentally lazy. People, lacking the will or mental rigor to untangle the layers of a person's being, lazily fall back onto unidimensional labels which fulfill their preconceived notions. Supposedly intelligent and open-minded people who still lack the ability to look inwards and realize the fool's game they are playing. <br /><br />Slut, cocktease! But if she has sex with you, does that mean she is neither? Now you'll tell me she is a woman with impeccable taste? Ha! Please.Phoenixismhttp://www.phoenxism.netnoreply@blogger.com