tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post7134838467050407094..comments2023-05-18T03:00:50.326-07:00Comments on Poetry of Flesh: Poetry of Fleshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00871932715491205605noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-58475882719323207342010-03-19T10:31:07.327-07:002010-03-19T10:31:07.327-07:00It seems that you are trying to catch an ellusive ...It seems that you are trying to catch an ellusive butterfly that must remain free. If GV8 were to become your man and be only with you, he would not be the man that he is now.<br />It seems that you admire him for his ability to be free of emotional tie downs that a relationship normally has. <br /><br />There is a differance between men and women in the way they deal with relationships. Men traditionally compartmentalize each part of there lives to keep things orderly and simple. That is why they can have a fight in on breath and have a passionate love making session the next. Women traditonally need an emotional flow from one part of their life to the next. If their man treats them like shit all day they will not be interested in going to bed with them that evening. It is almost like emotional foreplay. there are times when we all need to compartmentalize in order to get on with dailey activities, such as work. Home life problems must be set aside to a degree to deal with focusing on work. I think that this technique is useful for survival but it is not what creates a sense of happiness.<br /><br /> True happiness is achieved when we learn to live our core values and be true to what we believe and think. No regrets, peaceful with the way things are, always striving to do better.Susan Urquharthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09037363900819522754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-40831663237788018612010-03-10T21:29:23.133-08:002010-03-10T21:29:23.133-08:00Anonymous,
It's not at all that I want to be ...Anonymous,<br /><br />It's not at all that I want to be emotionless, but that I want to be emotionally stable, so little things won't send me spinning out of control.<br /><br />It'd be... different, I suppose, if that picture had revealed anything, and if this blog wasn't anonymous. But sexcipades are merely sexcipades. I'm female, it doesn't take a lot of effort to have a lot of fun sexual adventures.<br /><br />We'll see where I find happiness, if I find it.Poetry of Fleshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00871932715491205605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-978967158752566702010-03-09T05:53:45.652-08:002010-03-09T05:53:45.652-08:00It seems that you're striving toward the goal ...It seems that you're striving toward the goal of being emotion-less. Why is that your ideal? If you are hurt by him & interested in what he does, that leads me to infer that what he does also brings you pleasure & happiness. You look down on yourself when you feel sad about your interactions or what he does...In my experience, the only time I lacked emotion or the ability to cry in my life was when I was depressed. I'm not sure why you are trying to reach the point in which no other human has an emotional effect on you. Do you think that will really make you happy? <br /><br />Also, as you post a picture of yourself naked to the world & tell everyone about your sexcipades, aren't you actually pretty confident? Why do you need further validation of any sort if you've already had so many sexual partners who have enjoyed your intimacy? <br /><br />I can't imagine that the route you're going down will bring you happiness in the end...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-58106176282471165102010-03-05T09:12:29.930-08:002010-03-05T09:12:29.930-08:00Yes, I have the same red flag pop up.
I am respon...Yes, I have the same red flag pop up.<br /><br />I am responsible for my thoughts and emotions, as stated in my post. It's hard to untangle motivations and needs, hard to navigate and realize what one is doing. <br /><br />It's hard to explain to a man. There's the concept, and then there's the reality. We're raised to focus on the opposite sex, raised that our value comes from who wants us. You look at cartoons for boys and compare them to cartoons for girls. The boys cartoons are about fighting monsters, achieving goals, using their brains. The girls cartons are about boys, about drama, about romance, wardrobe, occasionally fighting weird space creatures but still coming back in time for the dance.<br /><br />Realizing that I was doing what I was doing, at first for damage then, as I stopped that need, for validation, was incredibly disappointing. I finally stepped out of that last year, with all of my sex partners being purely because I wanted them, because I felt good about myself and wanted sex... that was major progress for me. Progress I plan on continuing.<br /><br />It means I'm learning to validate myself. Finally.<br /><br />And you're a dirty bickerer. Bicker-er. Bickerererer. Damn. I'm heading out to June Lake for the weekend, so I'll have to get to your other bit of bicker later. Try not to be so mean while I'm gone. :PPoetry of Fleshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00871932715491205605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186930289760870447.post-76831217659264765902010-03-05T00:06:29.035-08:002010-03-05T00:06:29.035-08:00Any time I hear a woman use the "V" word...Any time I hear a woman use the "V" word (validation) I go on red alert.<br /><br />Validation.<br />What does that mean to YOU Poetry? <br />Are you not responsible for your thoughts and emotions?<br /><br />I'm sorry, this is the 2nd bickering comment I've left with you tonight. Time for me to hit the sack :)Phoenixismhttp://www.phoenixism.netnoreply@blogger.com